Dear Women,
It is true we can’t comprehend your sex entirely ever since consciousness came into existence.
You don’t have to care for everyone whom you meet.
You don’t have to develop concerns for every friend you possess.
But also, you don’t have to keep everything within yourself.
Firstly, I want to ask you, do you have true friends? You will have. But not having any shouldn’t be the excuse to meet a counselor. Am I right?
Why bother spending money and falling into a gaslighting scheme by a professional who boxes you in a category he or she learned in theory, and then ensures that you keep believing you really have an issue and continue to take counseling sessions? This is my opinion and I could be wrong here. There will be good professionals staying true to their science and transparent to the patients. You might be lucky to find one. But you can’t waste your precious time finding one. Therapy doesn’t work for everyone and is individualistic.
Women are filled with gumption. You just have to talk it out with one of your true friends, or your dad, or mom, or a brother, or a sister or that distant relative whom you always consider close at heart. But not everyone does that. You hide the pain, the emotions, the feelings, etc. everything inside your heart, and lock it safely. And then you start believing that you need help from a stranger who’s good in psychology and you need to take counseling to address your “made-believe” issues. Why bother wasting your money and time and be someone’s constant source of income? Please think twice. You don’t need a counselor. You’re a counselor by yourself.
Women are braver than men. Do not fall into the pressure that your parents or this society places on you. It’s okay if you’re depressed over someone or something. It’s perfectly normal if you get married at your own pace, swiping over multiple grooms in bumble or a shaadi app. It’s absolutely fine if you want to marry someone whom you love and whom you want as your life partner. It’s completely moral to make your parents understand what you need and want. You just have to talk to them and make them understand. At the end of the day, be it parents, friends or anyone who loves you truly, will accept what you truly wish to do and will never put you in discomfort.
You’re the emotionally stronger one compared to our sex. Decide to be brave and do better than becoming a lifetime client to a professional stranger. No matter what you decide to be, my humble request would be, do not turn out to be an emotionless being!
May God & Goddess Bless Your Kind!
Your true friend,
Maddie.
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